{"id":10114,"date":"2026-06-25T06:27:02","date_gmt":"2026-06-25T10:27:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.mrclapper.com\/blog2\/?p=10114"},"modified":"2026-06-25T06:27:02","modified_gmt":"2026-06-25T10:27:02","slug":"eight-million-ways-to-happiness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mrclapper.com\/blog2\/?p=10114","title":{"rendered":"Eight Million Ways to Happiness"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I liked this book a lot.  Want an example of how to combine personal experiences with research?  Read this one.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I was churning on several quotes. I&#8217;ll start with this one: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Kuyo even inflects the way we speak. In Japan it is unthinkable to begin a meal without saying &#8220;itadakimasu&#8221; &#8212; a word that means &#8220;humbly receiving with gratitude,&#8221; but note the lack of a specific subject.  We are receiving the food from whomever prepared it, but also from whoever cultivated it, and finally whatever sacrificed itself so that we could have it. &#8220;Itadakimasu&#8221; reminds us of the invisible web of relationships upon which we rely to live.&#8221;  <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Shrine dancing made me realize that the person driving myself into that corner wasn&#8217;t really a monster, but me. Our own hopes and desires fuel our fears and anxieties.  Like Susanolo, all of us are double-edged swords. The one telling me <em>you aren&#8217;t good enough<\/em> was me. Such a simple phrase, yet with such power to thwart and bind, almost like a magical spell. It made me start wondering how many times I&#8217;d sabotaged myself with it, how many opportunities I&#8217;d missed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There&#8217;s a famous quote that sometimes doing your best isn&#8217;t good enough.  But my my dance at the shrine taught me that isn&#8217;t right at all.  Doing your best is good enough &#8212; and whatever happens beyond that is in kami territory.  Once you&#8217;ve done your best to prepare, there&#8217;s no good or bad, pass or fail.  <strong>There&#8217;s just doing &#8212; meaning that whatever happens will be a new experience, and experiences, both positive and negative, are the real currency of our lives. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Yoda, Hiroko. <em>Eight Million Ways to Happiness: Wisdom for Inspiration and Healing from the Heart of Japan<\/em>. Tiny Reparations Books, 2025.<br><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I liked this book a lot. Want an example of how to combine personal experiences with research? Read this one. I was churning on several quotes. I&#8217;ll start with this one: Kuyo even inflects the way we speak. 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