Piece of paper and get ready to draw:

Left side: the people and situations you can get yourself in that will allow you to push through difficulty. Be as specific as possible.

Right side:the people and situations that get you in trouble. In other words, what kinds of feelings, mindsets, and places help you fall away from a difficult situation.

Discussion questions:
where does our class fit on this sheet?
where does our school fit on this sheet?
where does your workspace at home fit on this sheet?

Examples:

Reflection:
We pretty quickly got to the question of whether or not it’s about individuals or about the group. Can another person really distract you or is it about what you let other people do?

DD made an incredible point “It’s more important to motivate yourself but it’s stronger when other people do it.”

KM also said “choices I make affect the stuff I want to do.”

AH claimed “how is yourself your biggest obstacle?”

KM noted as did many others, “sometimes it’s a ‘me vs me’ thing, sometimes it’s a ‘me vs. a situation’ situation”

Example from Clapper world: