Day two: Destiny/fate/luck

True or false: luck is the biggest factor in one’s fate.

MB: Karma is a bigger factor because you have to do things for good or bad things to happen to you.

TC: I don’t believe luck has anything to do with fate. I believe that luck is something people make up in order to feel better. Or like a crutch of some sort.

SH: Luck comes when it’s most needed or it comes when it just happens. Or life can cut you a break and throw it at you sometimes.

DD: I feel like finding things, getting money, etc., isn’t luck. It’s life.

AM: This is true because every one that is successful says that they got lucky.

KM: “No, I’m not lucky. I’m blessed.” ~Nicki Minaj

AH: Luck can’t matter when you work hard and do everything you need to ensure you’ll be successful.

IP: True because you could be lucky enough to have been born into a rich/famous family and because of that your life could be all downhill, but you could also have been born homeless and no one would ever hear your voice or know your name.

Finding our way to outstanding

Near the beginning of every project, I go through the process of asking students to think about what makes outstanding work. There are lots of reasons for this: it helps give them something to aim for, it helps them consider how they might best use their time, it helps them understand what makes quality work, and, well, it helps me write a rubric, which is pretty much the second work task any teacher has to do. In this case, it was writing a rubric for English, math, and science content based on an upcoming deliverable: a brochure presenting the case for compost along three axes: mathematically, environmentally, and convenience. In other words, how do we convince people to compost based on arguments in those areas?

The kids were crazy – Monday + two hours doing bureaucracy – but still managed to generate a pretty awesome rubric. More evidence that we’re making progress.

English
If someone reading it wants to make compost.
Explains the science behind it all clearly.
Makes it so everyone can comprehend it and makes it appealing to the reader.
If the ideas about argument made about compost are clear and compelling.
Effective, persuasive, and real structure.

Math
The math terms are understandable and equations make sense.
Carefully explains how things can get composted with math; everything adds up and makes sense; they can use the math in their design.
If the measurements of each component are thoughtfully explained along with various ratios.
If the math is backed up in words to make it easier to understand.
There are visuals to help explain the math.
Easily understandable concepts that focus on the way you explain things in your work.
If the numbers presented are chosen carefully, explained well, and the equation is demonstrated in a convincing way.

Social Studies
If you have evidence to make your case.
IF the evidence is synthesized from multiple sources, shows a deep understanding, and clearly helps the argument.
If you have lots of evidence to back up your work.

Last day: pushing through difficulty

Piece of paper and get ready to draw:

Left side: the people and situations you can get yourself in that will allow you to push through difficulty. Be as specific as possible.

Right side:the people and situations that get you in trouble. In other words, what kinds of feelings, mindsets, and places help you fall away from a difficult situation.

Discussion questions:
where does our class fit on this sheet?
where does our school fit on this sheet?
where does your workspace at home fit on this sheet?

Examples:

Reflection:
We pretty quickly got to the question of whether or not it’s about individuals or about the group. Can another person really distract you or is it about what you let other people do?

DD made an incredible point “It’s more important to motivate yourself but it’s stronger when other people do it.”

KM also said “choices I make affect the stuff I want to do.”

AH claimed “how is yourself your biggest obstacle?”

KM noted as did many others, “sometimes it’s a ‘me vs me’ thing, sometimes it’s a ‘me vs. a situation’ situation”

Example from Clapper world:

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Day three of circle: Doing what you don’t want to do

We travelled to the multipurpose room/gym/cafeteria. A student sat on a stool and shared a thought they’ve had during a time when they didn’t want to do something.

Surrounding them were four students each holding a card:
Negative Ned or Nelly
Positive Polly or Peter
Social media Sal or Sally
Long-term Len or Lisa

After the student shared the thought, the other thoughts were allowed to argue among themselves. As usual several of our actors ruled this activity, leading to social media Sal declaring “Smash that like button! Forget about everything!”

We debriefed and talked about all humans have multiple voices, multiple impulses and some strategies to acknowledge all them. Someone once said to me that it’s like having fifty televisions going at once; your job is to focus on one and not try and continually turn them all off.

Block quotes from The Return

Perhaps memorials and all the sacred and secular rituals of morning across our human history are but failed gestures.The dead live with us. Grief is not a whodunit story, or a puzzle to solve, but an active and vibrant enterprise. It is hard, honest work. It can break your back. It is part of one’s initiation into death — I don’t know why, I have no way of justifying it — it is a hopeful part at that. What is extraordinary is that, given everything that happened, the natural alignment of the heart remains towards the light.

Matar, Hisham. The Return: Fathers, Sons and the Lands in Between. New York: Random House, 2016.

Chapter 43: Adolescents

Our circle activities this week are designed to explore the idea of how we learn to do things we don’t want to do.

Q: How do we deal with it when we don’t feel like doing things?

We had a great opening conversation yesterday especially when someone declared immediately:

“See, that’s why I can’t wait to be an adult. Adults never have to do anything they don’t want to do.”

Yep, that’s why we do this work: puncturing that illusion early. I would love to hear This American Life talk to strangers about all the things they had to do over the course of the day that they didn’t want to do.

That being said, part of our goal and it’s certainly a goal of mine, is to help our fellow human beings figure out how to structure a life where nearly everything you do has a purpose and that the things you don’t want to do (say making a real lunch for your children every morning at 6:00 AM) support objectives that are important to you (having healthy children).

Very difficult activity that worked well

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It’s shocking how much time there is in a quarter. Just shocking.

In trying to fill this out, students struggled mightily to envision how this time might be used. Some of this emerged from unwillingness to think about how many hours ought to be spent gathering background information, i.e., reading closely. Some of this emerges from the choices made about the actual project. You can’t spend 125 hours building a bookshelf. Some of this emerged from project ideas where kids struggled to identify different academic components. There’s good academic work in building a youtube channel but it’s not readily identifiable.