Monday question: what’s the difference?

What’s the difference between an expectation and a requirement?

“An expectation and a requirement are different because an expectation is something expected of you, meaning it’s what you should do, not what you have to do.” MH

“An expectation is something that someone thinks you should do or how you should act. But if can be completely disregarded if you don’t care about that person. A requirement is basically an expectation that has to be met.” QG

(MC response: what if I said your expectations need to come from yourself?)

The difference between an expectation and a requirement is that when people expect something of you, they are merely setting a guideline that you could follow but it’s not something you have to do. It’s almost like people want you to do something, but they want you to do those things yourself. A requirement…means there is a set of rules that you have to follow in order to reach some kind of pre-meditated goal that has been laid out. Requirements aren’t something that can be negotiated. JR

Have to read this article with students…

Dale M. writing on dropouts.

It links to yesterday’s conversation about what it means to be ready for 12th grade. There’s several tensions with our current eleventh graders that we should be able to process in writing. And it’s a minefield for a lot of reasons.

1. The turn it on, turn it off nature of life; too many humans operate on the “when I get to place X, I’ll turn it on and I’ll be fine” model. This is an illusion for all but the most lucky and talented. It runs deep.

2. The deep worry we all have about where kids start college and face the frustration of remedial courses. Even in a project-based model, where passion and interest fuel the work (on good days), there’s still much to be done to “catch up.” College, even done badly, is hard work and I think too many educators create a picture of it as a kind of nirvana. I am guilty of this because having the opportunity to read, write, and argue all day sounds pretty good to me but I loved all those things even when I hated school.

3. Such an article and such a discussion shouldn’t be seen as a personal attack; rather it should be seen as a way of understanding what the students will be up against. Like any teacher (and parent), I have moments where I present information in what I feel is a non-threatening, thoughtful way only to have my children and students ask why I’m coming at them. Why I’m always coming at them. ALWAYS COMING AT THEM.

4. The dawning reality that many kids start to face in eleventh grade…the real world is coming and it’s scary for more than a few of them. Analogy: it’s the start of a long walk on the plains. You can see the mountains in front of you but they’re going to be far, far away. And you can see the other hikers who are days, even weeks ahead of you. You can do it. But it’s going to take a lot of effort of a sort you’ve never put forth before. It might just be easier to stay where you are.

Monday morning…

What’s going on?

Thinking about a group

Is it me?
Is it adolescence?
Is it the culture in the room?
Is it the culture of the school?
Is it the culture of the neighborhood/city?
Is it me?

What can I do?
What do I need to remember about adolescence?
What work have I done in the room? What work have we done as a class?
What work have I done in the school? What work have we done in the school?
What work have I done for the city? What work have we done for the city?
What can I do?

Climb that mountain

I get this song stuck in my head. A lot.

We continued our conversation about how to get projects to the outside world. I tried to build on yesterday’s deep thoughts about the difficulty of moving projects from idea to completion, particularly school projects that are aimed at the real world.

We drew mountains. We put complete, outward-facing projects on the top of the mountain. We talked about all the steps it takes to get to the top of the mountain.

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mountain

What gets in the way of connecting?

I wanted to spend today thinking about the obstacles that prevent students from connecting their projects to the outside world. But I have spent too much time around Simon Hauger so I had to try and phrase the prompt in a positive way first: how do you, your school, and your life help you connect projects? And what in those areas slows you down or gets in the way?

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My favorite moment and a great conversation point was from the first document: “You have to be careful about yourself and how you get out there?” Combine this with a great point raised by another student — “I’d be afraid to take on an outside project because of what could happen if something went wrong.”

Connecting with the outside world week

One of the best parts of our program has to be the ways in which we try and connect students and their work with the outside world. We do our best to break down the barriers between school and the outside world — no easy task — and hope that the work can be measured against real world standards and that the successes and failures of trying to do something authentic can provide important experiences.

Today we’ll begin by asking the why connecting to the outside world matters. I know I’ve asked this a thousand or more times before but I want to make sure that we discuss why this matters. Tomorrow, I think I’ll look at what’s get in the way, mostly because I want the eleventh graders to consider their role in these partnerships, i.e., how can I stop being the gatekeeper or the conduit to the outside world and become a coach instead?

Later in the day:
We had a good conversation. What’s striking to me is how closely they’ve internalized this notion of an outward facing education. While we do not explicitly criticize how other schools operate, the students definitely have an understanding of what this means, to focus on outside connections.

Here are some of their thoughts, which I’m going to build around tomorrow as a way of seeing whether it’s happening or not:

Our projects should connect because our projects solve real world problems. TJC
So that we understand the work we do and how we learn from them. TJC
To inspire others. ES
…our projects need to connect to the outside world because we need to be able to understand …how it will be once we actually are on our own. JF
To see who likes our stuff. AB
Projects are more important than a grade. AB
The only reason I can think of is because we have real standards for our work. QG
We learn about what’s out there in the world but also how to change it. TC
Maybe our projects can touch people in a way that they can help themselves. DL
It is important for projects to connect to the real world because you can make a change somewhere, you can better a community. JH
Sometimes when you do projects, you break barriers, you do things people don’t believe you can do, and you can prove people wrong. JH
Projects connected to the outside world have more meaning. KB

Friday Review Board

One of the tensions in a space where kids are all working on different projects is maintaining a common culture. We spend circle time talking different topics — grit, feedback, problem solving — but they then take on their own projects. I have to find ways so that they can weigh in on each other’s work in substantive ways.

I also have to do all the work necessary for any group of adolescentshuman beings who will happily form and reform into groups where they’re most comfortable or, for lack of a better word, cliques.

Step one: Establish four ground rules for the table.

Step two: Read the paragraph description. As a large group, make a list of the traits and characteristics that will make the final version of this project outstanding.

Step three: Read/skim through the deliverable you have in front of you. What evidence do you see of outstanding work? What have they read? What have they written?

Step four: What are four to six concrete things this group has to do in order to move this work along so that it will become outstanding?

Student feedback on the process
Why should we do this?
*It was helpful to see what the other groups are working on.
*It was helpful for the one group with making their purpose stronger.
*We all got a chance to see all the work that everybody does.
*Everybody learned about the process they went through (while doing their projects).
*It gave some groups feedback they’d never even thought about.
*Everyone gave and got good amounts of feedback.
*It was helpful…people who did not understand our project before now know.

How should we do it differently?
*have one representative in the groups to hear the feedback.
*the sheet could have had better and stronger questions.
*Maybe next time we can have a group by group process where everyone gives everyone else feedback.