Man, six in a row is hard, especially when a big visitor arrives midway through.

Some deep thoughts from today, phrased in the form of agree-disagree statements:

LM: To make the community stronger, it needs to start with advisory, not with the individual.

DW: It’s better to be talked to instead of talked at.

SJ: Most of us are creative and we want to test out our creativity.

KN: We each have our own worlds that we live in…
So John — when he talks, everytime he talks, he give a motivational speech.

MW: (If I had would have had more time to do it, it would have been perfect.
I can help anyone but people don’t ask.

When is it my responsibility and when is is theirs?

If I give out the assignment, explain it, define it, spend at least fifteen minutes (and sometimes more) talking about what makes it outstanding, how often do I have to remind you to do it? If I make a checklist on October 9th and give it to you, then send on-line reminders on the 16th, the 25th, and the 29th, what more do I need to do?

How do I provide reset buttons for kids? In other words, how do I make sure that when a project deliverable slips off their radar they can start thinking about it again without panic?

How do I make sure that the intention behind every activity we do is understood and that all students are clear about how the activity and the time supports the completion of the deliverable?

How do I make clear what college actually means? What do people think about when they think about college? What do they expect?

KH makes a lovely distinction between being goofy and being an intellectual.

Best thing anyone said: “everyone has a role in this community.”

Second best thing anyone said: “in this group, there’s a lot of freedom, responsibility and work.”

Tomorrow’s the big night when our escape room goes live. We have five interlocking puzzles. We have lots of fun clues. We’ve rehearsed three times and have a pretty good sense where things go wrong.

As a wrap-up on Wednesday reading circle, we looked at excerpts from this Atlantic article on escape rooms. As we looked at the article, we talked about how our own room reflected these ideals.

“We’re passionate about our school and our escape room will reflect that.”
“There are serious mental rewards as we’ve been doing this.”
“Without reflection you don’t learn nothing.”
“The escape room gave a different way of learning.”

A good circle and a good day.

We also came up with a title; CS suggested Raiders of the Lost Classroom, which got shortened to “The Lost Classroom.”

Monday’s circle began, as it always does, with a weekend update — what did you get up to this weekend — and a second question: what did you do to compete with the best and brightest? I prefaced this by talking about the potential I see in all of them and how I want them to someday be their best selves.

I wanted to highlight the fact that they are competing against children who spend far more time reading, writing, and thinking about their schoolwork. This is a hard one to do in circle: I didn’t want to produce automatic adolescent us vs. them stuff but I also didn’t want anyone believing that they’ve made it already. The intense, relationship based culture of our school allows us to see the immense potential of all students. Potential is just potential, though, and nothing’s sadder than when it goes unrealized.

It’s about creating the situation where you realize you need to work harder.

(Also, I’ve not forgotten how the so-called best and the brightest made a hash out of a war. )

One of my big questions for the week is how we bring work we do in one sphere of our lives into another. In other words, do the skills we cultivate in our home matter for what we do at school? The skills we make on the playing field or in the rehearsal room — how do they make our project work, our academic work, our life work better? Do they? What transfers? What doesn’t transfer?

It’s surprisingly difficult to get people to identify things they’re good at, particularly in public, so we wrote first: name three things you’re good at, one from home, one from school, and one from everywhere else. Then we turned to the ways in which those skills/those strengths do support project work and the way they don’t.

I got some tape (amateur hour, I know) but we have some cool artifacts as well.

We graded ourselves on the four words today. Collaborative, Professional, Persistent, and Motivational…students graded themselves on one word, then graded the community on a second word, and then concluded by grading their peers on the two remaining words.

On the back of the paper, they wrote about what they see as the biggest issues facing our advisory:

Patience
We need to work on talking less when in big groups.
Not being a liar.
One thing we need to work on is staying focused on the work. I think that a good portion of us take independent work for granted.
Not going on Youtube so much.
We need to work on our own projects.
One thing we need to work on is having one voice when someone else is talking.
Getting the entire class to buckle down and be quiet and get the work done when needed. For example, no side conversations, no singing out loud, etc. Basically like a library when it’s time to work. Otherwise it can be as loud as ever.
Talking to people outside our friend groups.
I think people need to shh…
Our four hours togeher we need to get each other to be involved when we’re doing group work because students are willing to collaborate.
One voice/proper argument debate
We need to learn how to get focused when it’s time to work.
Stop talking over each other.
I don’t want to change anything.
Speaking one at a time.

Good Thursday morning conversation about the good and bad reasons people go to college. We drew a line, labelled one side good and the other bad, and then started populating the sheet. There are a lot of reasons people go to college; how many good reasons…not so many.

I was happy that at least one person talked about how you go to college to learn about things you care about. And to learn about what you want to learn about.

Then I started singing this song…

Why go to college? Why stay in night school? Going to be different this time…